Dealing with Premature Ejaculation
by Sarah Price
Discussing personal and intimate problems with your partner may not be easy at the best of times, never mind relaying these issues to healthcare professionals.
Many men suffer in silence, simply because confronting an issue such as this is extremely difficult.
Hopefully, this article will help relieve some of the stress/frustration you may be feeling, and will help to reduce the impact this is having on your life
So what should I do?
Follow the simple 5 step plan I have outlined below and you will see a dramatic improvement in your sexual performance.
STEP 1: Acceptance and Acknowledgement
By arriving on this page, you are most definitely on the right track. Being able to admit there is an issue (even to yourself) can be very tough, but it is the first step on the road to success.
Once we become physically and emotionally aware of any shortcomings we may have, it is possible to map out a success path to regain control over our ejaculations.
STEP 2: Conscious Effort
It is all well and good admitting that you have an issue which requires the help of others. However, there must be a conscious effort on your part to actively work on resolving this issue.
Imagine your wife/girlfriend complaining because you haven't cut the lawn. You know it needs to be done, and it will look so much better when it is done, but you decide to put it off for whatever reason. Think of your premature ejaculation problem as the lawn - you know it needs assistance, and you know things will look a lot better once you have worked up the motivation to do something about it (not to mention having a happy spouse!).
Merely acknowledging the issue is not enough, it is time to get motivated and be committed to beating this thing.
STEP 3: Verifying Extent
After admitting there is an issue, and committing to improve things, analysing the severity of the problem is the next step.
Luckily for our readers, healthcare professionals have designed a simple test to analyse the extent of the problem. Click the link below to take the test now:
STEP 4: Solution Analysis
At this point, it can be like stepping into a minefield. With so many products and techniques on the market, finding one that is right for you can appear a very daunting task.
A lot of money and time is wasted, trying out different products, using different techniques, but often with abysmal results.
It is extremely important to not become disheartened. Just because those other 9 products didn't work, doesn't mean that there isn't something out there for you.
Admittedly, the industry is brimming with a lot of spam and trashy products (e-books come to mind), so thorough research is paramount.
From my in-depth research, I have created a checklist to assist in deciding upon a product. The checklist is available in my FREE e-book, which you can receive by entering your email address into the online form on the right-hand side of this page (scroll up and look for "free pdf guide"). It is a good read, and I do recommend you download it if you have a spare 5 minutes.
To help speed things up for you, I am including only the checklist here (the E-Book has much more). You should be able to answer "yes" to each of the following 9 questions before even considering a treatment.
If a product/technique fails on any of these points, you should seek alternative solutions:
- Has the product been designed to DIRECTLY treat the issue of premature ejaculation?
- Is this solution void of nasty chemicals?
- If I wish to use this product discreetly, can I do so without my partner knowing?
- Is it safe? (no undesirable side effects)
- Will it work within a matter of minutes?
- Has the products' effectiveness been proven? (used/endorsed by real doctors in real life clinics)
- Are the products' developers credible and respected members of the sexual health industry?
- If I am not entirely satisfied with the results, is it a simple process to receive a refund?
- Will this product allow me to last longer WITHOUT compromising sensation?
STEP 5: Implementation & Continuation
Great, so you found a solution that is right for you. The important thing now is to use that product for maximum effectiveness.
From experience with our own product, we know that trial and error is often the best method for achieving the best results.
Your life should feel a lot better at this point, you should be having better, longer sex, and your partner is likely ecstatic with your improved performances.
The final and most important thing to mention is CONTINUATION. Don't slip back into the old, lazy you who couldn't be bothered to cut the lawn.
Stay on top of your game, keep putting in those stellar performances in the bedroom, and your life will feel so much better.
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